I think the key is what the article says - that it is an issue that requires long-term growth making sure that the occasional failures along the way do not lead to despair and depression.
Judaism, Masturbation and Me
Very interesting and impressive article. Gagnon"A critique of Jacob Milgrom's views on Leviticus Click Here for more details. Even after marriage, intimacy should be intentional giving of oneself to one's spouse, rather than just giving in to desires. The Torah prohibits only sexual intercourse, but the rabbis broadened this prohibition, maintaining that a man may not even touch his wife or sleep in the same bed as her during this time.